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		<title>What I Learned from This Time Is Different&#8211;Sovereign debt is forever until ok&#8230;whatever!?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 15:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The bottom line for 2012 is that for advanced economies who are unwilling to devalue their currency, allow high interest rates, encourage high inflation rates,&#160; or default on their debt, the only solution is for these countries to pay down their debt. Without a financial calamity to motivate legislators to break the gridlock, this scenario [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The bottom line for 2012 is that for advanced economies who are unwilling to devalue their currency, allow high interest rates, encourage high inflation rates,&#160; or default on their debt, the only solution is for these countries to pay down their debt. Without a financial calamity to motivate legislators to break the gridlock, this scenario sounds like a script for Mission Impossible. Does no pain translate to no gain? Sovereign debt investors would like these countries to grow and pay down their debt as part of the increased tax revenue but regardless of the economic growth or the pain, they will be paid or else that advanced economy and it’s sovereign debt degrades into “something else”. This “something else” position is assumed to be something similar to but not as bad as that experienced by Argentina in their 2002 default. It is generally assumed that a “default” should be avoided at all costs. Greece is teetering between “default” and something folks have started to call a “managed default”. “Managed default” is supposed to be a better situation than “default”. Regardless of which name you use to describe the situation, the sovereign debt investors are not getting their money back and they will unlikely make this mistake again. The primary attraction of the “managed default” plan to the European Union is that it will inflict less economic pain on Greece and as a result the Greece’s economy will fall less and recover faster than in a “default” scenario. The unanswered question is how much economic pain is required in Greece for necessary economic reforms to occur. That is probably why the European Union is asking Greece for budget veto power over the Greece budget. Considering the situations in Ireland, Portugal, Spain, and Italy are not far behind, maybe the authors will have enough material to write their next book about this never-never land for advanced economies, its pitfalls, and its benefits.</p>
<p>Yes, I know the authors collected a lot of valuable economic history but unless you get excited over lots of charts, it is a very dry read.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0691152640/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wwwwehubercon-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0691152640">This Time Is Different: Eight Centuries of Financial Folly</a>     <br />by Carmen M. Reinhart &amp; Kenneth S. Rogoff </p>
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		<title>Review of The Total Money Makeover and The Original Argument</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last year my wife had a spat with our son and decided that I should be ferrying my son back to college from now on. Although it involves a lot of driving I prefer to complete the round trip in one day. With all of that time in the car I have taken advantage of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last year my wife had a spat with our son and decided that I should be ferrying my son back to college from now on. Although it involves a lot of driving I prefer to complete the round trip in one day. With all of that time in the car I have taken advantage of the local library and their supply of audio books. For this trip I chose two audio books, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159555078X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wwwwehubercon-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=159555078X">The Total Money Makeover: A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness</a><img style="border-bottom-style: none !important; margin: 0px; border-left-style: none !important; border-top-style: none !important; background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-right-style: none !important" border="0" alt="" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwwehubercon-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=159555078X" width="1" height="1" /> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451650612/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=wwwwehubercon-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1451650612">The Original Argument: The Federalists&#8217; Case for the Constitution, Adapted for the 21st Century</a>.<img style="border-bottom-style: none !important; margin: 0px; border-left-style: none !important; border-top-style: none !important; background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-right-style: none !important" border="0" alt="" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwwehubercon-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1451650612" width="1" height="1" /> </p>
<p>As a fan of the Dave Ramsey show the audio books was an enjoyable review of much of the same stuff you hear over the radio. </p>
<p>The Original Argument audiobook is an interesting Glenn Beck project. Glenn Beck and others have translated many of the original Federalist Papers from the 18<sup>th</sup> century English into an easier to understand 21<sup>st</sup> century English. The objective was to make the Federalist Papers more accessible to the average person and I think he achieved that. In this book we find Alexander Hamilton and James Madison making persuasive arguments for a more powerful federal government primarily because they felt a federal effort would be more efficient and cost less than independent state efforts. From their viewpoint it was a win-win decision for the country. Although I agree with Alexander Hamilton and James Madison about the benefits of a strong federal government, I think they would be shocked to see how the balance of power has shifted from the states to the federal government. Most of the safeguards for the state that Alexander Hamilton and James Madison described have been dismantled over the years. Not only are senators directly elected by the people but the states are increasing dependent on the federal government for their revenue as shown below.&#160; The culmination of this dismantling effort can be seen in the lawsuits over the constitutionality of the Affordable Care Act. This year lawyers will make many of same federal versus state rights arguments before the Supreme Court that was argued originally in the Federalist Papers. I doubt any of lawyers will attempt to make the argument that the Affordable Care Act is more efficient substitute or enhancement of existing state programs. The fact that the federal government can pay for the expansion via deficit spending is a bad reason to expand Medicaid. I would be more in favor of a practice that encourages responsible governing practices.</p>
<p><img alt="" src="http://www.downsizinggovernment.org/sites/default/files/Total%20State%20Spending%20-%20Federal%20Share.jpg" width="480" /></p>
<p>See this Cato essay on <a href="http://www.downsizinggovernment.org/fiscal-federalism">federal subsidies to the states</a> for more on why it is critical to reverse this trend.</p>
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		<title>Book Review: This Time is Different: Eight Centuries of Financial Folly</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2011/12/19/book-review-this-time-is-different-eight-centuries-of-financial-folly/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 19:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been reading This Time is Different: Eight Centuries of Financial Folly for the last month. It has been slow going since it reads like a text book and I have read my fair share of text books in my life. I would have given up except that the authors have some collected some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been reading <a href="http://www.amazon.com/This-Time-Different-Centuries-Financial/dp/0691142165">This Time is Different: Eight Centuries of Financial Folly</a> for the last month. It has been slow going since it reads like a text book and I have read my fair share of text books in my life. I would have given up except that the authors have some collected some important historical data about financial crises. The authors have methodically compiled approximately 800 years historical data base on financial crises and their causes. There are lots of tables, charts, and professorial comments about the causes of the crises. </p>
<p>A few days ago I was surprised when <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/author/henry-blodget">Henry Blodget</a> wrote an article advocating more government spending in the article, <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/keynes-was-right-2011-12?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+businessinsider+%28Business+Insider%29">Well, It Sure Seems Like Keynes Was Right</a>, and based it partly on Reinhart and Rogoff’s analysis of prior financial crises. I was surprised since the authors did not comment directly about stimulus spending in the chapters I read but here is what Henry wrote:</p>
<blockquote><p>And I&#8217;ve also looked back at history&#8211;namely, Reinhart and Rogoff&#8217;s analysis of prior financial crises, the Great Depression, Japan, Germany after Weimar, and so forth.</p>
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<p>&#160;</p>
<p>So I skipped to the end of the book and read the last two chapters. The closest I came to a comment on Keynesian stimulus spending is:</p>
<blockquote><p>Debt sustainability exercises must be based on plausible scenarios for economic performance, because the evidence offers little support for the view that countries simply “grow out” of their debts. This observation may limit the options for governments that have inherited high levels of debt. Simply put, they must factor in the possibility of “sudden stops” in capital flow, for these are a recurrent phenomenon for all but the very largest economies in the world.</p>
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<p>and </p>
<blockquote><p>Our extensive coverage of banking crises, however, says little about the much debated issue of the efficacy of stimulus packages as a way of shortening the duration of the crisis and cushioning the downside of the economy as a banking crisis unfolds.</p>
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<p>So although the authors are concerned about plausible debt sustainability scenarios since it may lead to “sudden stops” in capital inflow in smaller economies, their data has shown that large economies like the United States have been immune from these “sudden stops”. This leaves open the question of what would happen to capital inflows if the United States undertook another stimulus like Henry Blodgett is recommending.&#160;&#160; At what level of debt does the rest of the world decide that the United States debt is not sustainable and they should invest their capital elsewhere. If that scenario occurs we can safely say this time is different. </p>
<p>As a back-handed complement I would like to thank Henry for making the “This Time is Different” book much more interesting than it would be otherwise.</p>
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		<title>AudioOwl &#8211; Pride and Prejudice (version 3) by Jane Austen</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For kicks I downloaded Pride and Prejudice (version 3) by Jane Austen from www.audioowl.com. It’s free! I listened to it on the way home from work and&#160; loved it. Karen, you did a great job reading it!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For kicks I downloaded <a href="http://www.audioowl.com/book/pride-and-prejudice-by-jane-austen-2">Pride and Prejudice (version 3) by Jane Austen</a> from <a href="http://www.audioowl.com">www.audioowl.com</a>. It’s free! I listened to it on the way home from work and&#160; loved it. Karen, you did a great job reading it!</p>
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		<title>Another Way to &#8220;read&#8221; the Bible and literary classics</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2010/01/27/another-way-to-read-the-bible-and-literary-classics/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 12:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About two years ago I decided to read the entire Bible. There are many ways to accomplish this task and I chose a Daily Reading plan served up to my RSS reader courtesy of The ESV Bible. When I started my second round of reading the Bible I increasingly used the audio version. This was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About two years ago I decided to read the entire Bible. There are many ways to accomplish this task and I chose a Daily Reading plan served up to my RSS reader courtesy of <a title="The ESV Bible" href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/">The ESV Bible</a>. When I started my second round of reading the Bible I increasingly used the audio version. This was much easier on those days when I was tired, unmotivated, and procrastination seemed to rule the day. About a month ago I started downloading podcasts to my phone. I play the reading on my way to work. This had been a very pleasant and fulfilling way to listen to the Bible and take advantage of the lost time during the morning commute. I enjoyed this endeavor so much I decided to listen to free audio books in the afternoon commute. In the morning I listen to the daily Bible reading and in the afternoon I listen to my daily reading of Pride and Prejudice courtesy of <a title="AudioOwl - Free Audio Books - Download mp3 and iPod format today!" href="http://www.audioowl.com/">AudioOwl</a>. It seems so appropriate that Pride and Prejudice is read by a woman with a British accent.</p>
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		<title>The Lazarus Effect by Ben Witherington</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2007/04/28/the-lazarus-effect-by-ben-witherington/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 17:23:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ben Witherington is undertaking a novel on his blog, called The Lazarus Effect. Here is the links to the individual posts. Part one Part two Part three Part four Part five Part six Part seven Part eight Part nine Part ten]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ben Witherington is undertaking a novel on his blog, called <em>The Lazarus Effect</em>. Here is the links to the individual posts.</p>
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<li><a title="Part one" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-one.html">Part one</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part two" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-two.html">Part two</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part three" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-three.html">Part three</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part four" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-four.html">Part four</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part five" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-five.html">Part five</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part six" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/03/lazarus-effect-part-six.html">Part six</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part seven" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/04/lazarus-effect-part-seven.html">Part seven</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part eight" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/04/lazarus-effect-part-eight.html">Part eight</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part nine" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/04/lazarus-effect-part-nine.html">Part nine</a>  </li>
<li><a title="Part ten" href="http://benwitherington.blogspot.com/2007/04/lazarus-effect-part-ten.html">Part ten</a></li>
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		<title>Book Review: The Pentagon&#8217;s New Map</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2006/05/08/book-review-the-pentagons-new-map/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2006 14:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another book my wife bought me for Christmas is The Pentagon&#8217;s New Map by Thomas Barnett. This is an excellent book at explaining the new political landscape that results from globalization. Although I do not necessarily agree with him on everything, I found that his ideas are comprehensive, pragmatic, and already being implemented. After reading [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect?link_code=as2&#038;path=ASIN/0425202399&#038;tag=wwwwehubercon-20&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325"><img border="0" alt="The Pentagon's New Map" class="right" src="http://www.alazycowboy.com/wp-content/wp-images/2006/05/0425202399.01._AA_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" /></a><img width="1" height="1" border="0" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwwehubercon-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0425202399" />Another book my wife bought me for Christmas is The Pentagon&#8217;s New Map by Thomas Barnett. This is an excellent book at explaining the new political landscape that results from globalization. Although I do not necessarily agree with him on everything, I found that his ideas are comprehensive, pragmatic, and already being implemented. After reading this book our global foreign policy becomes a little more understandable.</p>
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		<title>Book Review: In the Shadow of the Prophet</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2006/05/08/book-review-in-the-shadow-of-the-prophet/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2006 13:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My wife bought me this book for Christmas. We have a curiosity about Muslims and their motives. I finished reading the book about a month ago and highly recommend it for those who desire more background on the history and current trends in Islam. Generally speaking it is an easy read. I think Milton did [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect?link_code=as2&#038;path=ASIN/0813339022&#038;tag=wwwwehubercon-20&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=9325"><img class="alignright" alt="In the Shadow of the Prophet" src="http://www.legacyfarmltd.com/wordpress/wp-content/wp-images/2006/05/0813339022.01._AA_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a><img style="margin: 0px; border: medium none" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=wwwwehubercon-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0813339022" width="1" border="0" />My wife bought me this book for Christmas. We have a curiosity about Muslims and their motives. I finished reading the book about a month ago and highly recommend it for those who desire more background on the history and current trends in Islam. Generally speaking it is an easy read. I think Milton did a great job of covering the spectrum of Islamic beliefs although it takes some brain power to decipher the distinctions he made between fundamentalist and orthodox Muslims. I am still left pondering the political status of secularism as a viable alternative to religious warfare.</p>
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		<title>God Will Make A Way</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2004/08/28/god-will-make-a-way/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2004 09:41:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently finished reading God Will Make A Way by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. Like many other Christian books on the market today it is part psychology and part spirituality. The value of a book like this is that they occasionally describe situations you are experiencing and they have some helpful advice. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently finished reading God Will Make A Way by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. Like many other Christian books on the market today it is part psychology and part spirituality. The value of a book like this is that they occasionally describe situations you are experiencing and they have some helpful advice. When I read a Christian book like this I tend to fold the corner of the pages I want to return to. Still I am amazed at how much I had already forgotten and how hard it is for me to transfer what I have read into actions.</p>
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		<title>8th grade boys retreat/my son has a girlfriend</title>
		<link>http://alazycowboy.com/2004/06/02/8supthsup-grade-boys-retreatmy-son-has-a-girlfriend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2004 11:17:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago some friends of mine at our church found out that I lived on a farm and asked if they could bring out some 8th grade boys for a retreat. I said yes though I knew nothing. Eventually I found out that between a little tackle football, capture the flag, and archery [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago some friends of mine at our church found out that I lived on a farm and asked if they could bring out some 8<sup>th</sup> grade boys for a retreat. I said yes though I knew nothing. Eventually I found out that between a little tackle football, capture the flag, and archery they were planning on talking to the guys about:</p>
<ul>
<li>Honor</li>
<li>Purity and how to talk to women</li>
<li>How on being a warrior</li>
<li>Courage</li>
</ul>
<p>In hindsight this retreat was about a man’s heart and his relationship to sex. These boys are going into high school. In this sex saturated society they were going to be severely challenged if they wanted to avoid the pitfall of meaningless sex. Meaningless sex may seem exciting and forbidden for high school students but it wounds the heart in a way that it is difficult to repair. Instead of building and supporting the intimacy that is essential for a good marriage, they develop a fake intimacy. They rely on movies and television to provide them with the role model of their attempts at intimacy. Like the movie characters they remember, they try to play the part. Unlike the movies they do not have a script for their movie. Ultimately a sense of failure and fraud sets in. They do not feel like the man they envisioned when they embarked on this journey. This fake intimacy colors all future relationships with women. It is repairable but it takes time.</p>
<p>I mention this because something amazing happened at the retreat. The boys had just finished a rousing game of tackle football in the arena. Demonstrating great common sense I avoided participating in tackle football. Sorry! Been there! Done that! The results are always bad for a man my age. While they were playing I lit the bonfire and moved some logs around the fire to sit on. We were probably thirty minutes into the talk about purity and how to talk to a woman when it started to rain. Everyone went inside except my son. So I sat down next to him. He told me he had a <strong>girlfriend</strong>. I was shocked! Like many boys his age he seems entirely preoccupied with video games and sports. When he is around girls his age he seems wonderfully clumsy. I thought he had a great chance about being labeled a jerk for the next five years. Boy, was I wrong! He told me that there was a girl at school he liked and she liked him. He said they were very comfortable being around each other and talking about things. So we sat in the rain and he went on to explain what he liked about her. I sat and listened. When he finished we got up and joined the group inside. This was quite an amazing experience for a father. My son was invited to participate in the retreat because he lives here. He is just a 7<sup>th</sup> grader. It is possible that he will make the same mistake as others before him and succumb to the pitfall of meaningless sex. Then again maybe God has armed him with the armor to protect his heart and the desire to seek out a deeper relationship with God and women.</p>
<p>It feels somewhat strange that God has used me to help my son start the journey in search of his heart. Like many parents I am pretty comfortable with God using the retreat leaders in this manner but I forgot that my participation is not only necessary but required. I should know better. I just finished reading John Eldredge’s great book, <a title="Wild at Heart" href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785268839/wwwwehubercon-20">Wild at Heart</a>, just before the retreat. There is a lot of wisdom about God and the masculine heart in that book. I find myself going back to reread sections several times as I continue to try and understand my heart and others I care about. I thought I had a lot of time before I needed to apply what I had learned on my son. Boy, was I wrong! The path to understanding your heart and your son’s heart is out there. The difficulty lies in the fact that God’s plan is not the same as your plan.</p>
<p><center><a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0785268839/wwwwehubercon-20"><img border="0" alt="Wild at Heart" src="http://radio.weblogs.com/0114065/myImages/0785268839.jpg" /></a></center></p>
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