I had to re-install gnome-lokkit and run it again. I chose medium security. The ports for http, ssh, and mail should be open to my local network. I can now login using ssh. I had to run the apache config and give it a web server name before it would respond with the test page. I still cannot get vnc to work. I am getting “connection reset by peer”.  I think it is firewall configuration issue and I am tired of chasing it down.